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Men's Late Thirties Suck

cutlip54
08-16-07, 12:59 AM
Some might say that all they have to worry about is getting to work on time and the onset of a little middle-aged spread.

But men in their late-30s and early-40s are the least content of all of us, it seems.

Whether they are mourning the passing of their prime or struggling to cope with the demands of a job and young family, those aged 35-44 invariably hit a mid-life crisis when their happiness level plunges lower than at any other age, according to a study for the Government.

It makes them the least satisfied members of society, scoring well below teenagers, the elderly - and women of all ages.

Researchers found that it takes men until they reach the age of 65 to start enjoying life as much as they did in their late-teens and early-20s.

More than 1,600 people were asked to score their wellbeing on a scale of one to ten in the study, part of the British Market Research Bureau survey of Britons' attitudes towards themselves,

The overall average satisfaction level for both sexes was 7.3.

Most men rated their carefree teenage years between the age of 16-24 as one if their happiest periods, with an average score of 7.55 out of ten.

But halfway through their careers, satisfaction levels dipped to a low of 6.8, only rising again to nearly 7.8 once they had crested retirement age.

The report found that women are less buoyant in their teens than men, rating their wellbeing at 7.3 out of ten.

Women said their worst years were between the age of 25 and 34, when most are coping with young children, but their wellbeing rose steadily as they got older, reaching hit a peak satisfaction level of 7.65 when over the age of 65.

Researchers found that most people rated their time at universityas the best years of their life, closely followed by their retirement years.

The biggest difference between the sexes was in the contentment of those not working, with women far happier than men to stay at home not seeking work.

Overall, 74 per cent of the UK population reported that they feel positive about themselves.

But women are more likely to fret, with almost half admitting that they worry a lot, compared to less than a third of men.

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http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23408430-details/Why+the+late-30s+are+a+man's+misery+years/article.do

Ablekaak
08-16-07, 01:00 AM
sweet, something to look forward to!

njohnson747
08-16-07, 03:28 AM
My late teens - early twenties were the most kick ass part of my life and I knew it at the time. It was spent at college and I had it all - every part of my life was rich. I knew it wouldn't last but I knew the best times ever when I was in them. That was a great revelation back then and it serves me well knowing I knew when life had reached a peak.

And it's a great source of comfort as I approach the age range in question. I don't wish I could go back to those times - I'm just thankful as hell that I had them. They molded me into the person I am today and gave me my group of friends who are friends for life. Yeah, that period of time was very "satisfactory". Now I'm an adult with career and home responsibilities like everyone else. But I always knew I would grow up - so why would I fight it or let it piss me off?

We were all told back then as college students by visiting alumni that the "real world" would suck in comparison to our lifestyle as 18-22 year olds. So we made sure to party all that much harder and build our friendships and relationships to last a lifetime. All those road trips, women, good times - hell, I couldn't do that again in my adult life unless I was a rock star! I don't have to be a rock star to enjoy my life now. I just have to be realistic - and make the very most of the good times that do come around. That's what I call satisfaction. Take what you are given and make the most of it.

pvtpile
08-16-07, 03:34 AM
Hell I get to start kicking kids out of the house in my late 30's early 40's PARTAY TIME!!!!!!!!

silverdooty
08-16-07, 04:06 AM
so this explains why i'm an asshole

DarkHelmet
08-16-07, 06:13 AM
its going to get worse? were is my shotgun...

tamsnod27
08-16-07, 10:55 PM
I dunno, I'm 37, married, mortgage, all that crap. I can see why alot of folks feel that way. Had my fun while I was young, just got to keep on keeping on. That's why I need this place, need a daily laugh or two, or to have one of th3n00bs comments sicken me, whatever:biggrindaisy:

MostlyHarmless
08-16-07, 11:25 PM
Step 1: Get married Step 2: Start having kids Step 3: Plan a sweet murder/suicide.

Mojo
08-17-07, 03:50 AM
wah life sucks more than this, this sucks....

Slick
08-17-07, 07:22 AM
theres 3 rings to marriage..
the:
Engagement ring
Wedding ring
and
Suffe ring

in any event im in my late 30s and i can see the "midlife crisis" theory but its not jus midlife that life dumps on people.. sure ive had my good times and bad but ya gotta take it all with a grain of salt n just keep movin on... mine moves day by day...

mrspvtpile
08-17-07, 11:15 PM
boo hoo hoo for you guys...

cutlip54
08-18-07, 12:47 AM
Damn good thing I'm past the late-fo.....I mean thirties.........:icon_lalala:

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